there is always one person you love who becomes that definition…..
It usually happens retrospectively, but it happens eventually.
This is the person who unknowingly sets the
template for what you will always love about
other people, even if some of these loveable
qualities are self-destructive and unreasonable…
The person who defines your understanding of love
is not inherently different than anyone else, and
they’re often just the person you happen to meet
the first time you really, realllyyyyy wanted to
But that person still wins… its a fact…. They WIN & you lose!
Because for the rest of your life, they will control
how you feel about anyone you would ever meet..